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I am not a secret to be kept, nor am I a contingency plan, a safety net or a “what if”. I cannot continue to sit and wait and pretend. I matter. My shit and my schedule and whatever else I may or may not have going on in my life are just as important as anyone else’s. Others can’t pick and choose my roles for me.
I am not second best to ANYONE or ANYTHING. I am first class all the way. I am first in line. I am the priority. I am to be considered at all times. I can’t be pushed aside, or delayed. I am here, I am fully present and I am to remain so. I do not leave the mind when I am out of sight, or vicinity.
Neither am I invisible or convenient. I will always be seen or heard unless it is my choice not to be. I am not a hobby, a distraction or a way to pass the time (mine or anyone else’ for that matter). I have just as much right to visibility as anyone, sometimes even more so. Being a convenience is not how I will live or exist in anyone’s life, including my own. In the same manner I would rather be an inconvenience and be attended to rather than placed aside to be dealt with at a later time.
I MUST treat myself with the same courtesy, empathy, honor and respect that I extend to those around me. If it is not okay for me to treat others in a poor or inconsistent manner I can’t allow myself to, nor can I allow others to treat me as poorly as I have.
I own my life. I live out loud, boldly and with authenticity and integrity. Anything else is UNACCEPTABLE.